11 Aug Detriangulation and DifferentiationBill and diego have been

Detriangulation and DifferentiationBill and diego have been living together for 10 years. diego has always been the sole breadwinner, does the housework, arranges the couple’s social life, pays the bills, and so forth. Bill stays at home, watches television, checks Facebook, and walks the dog.diego comes home one day with a panicked expression and tells Bill that he’s lost his job. Very gently, he asks Bill to think about getting a job while he also looks for one. Bill immediately starts complaining. The 10-year system between them has suddenly been disrupted. diego becomes very hurt and angry at Bill. After weeks of barely talking to each other, diego talks Bill into going together to a couple therapist.during their fourth session, Bill turns to you and says, “Can you believe that diego wants me to get a job? Can you? I don’t have nearly his education or skills. does he expect I can get any kind of job that’s worth my time?”diego interrupts and says, “I feel like I have been taken advantage of for years. And I’ve put up with it until now. everything was fine until I lost my job. But now that I need help, all I get from my partner is complaints.”1. Identify the underadequate and the overadequate partner.2. What is Bill doing when he asks you about diego’s request that he look for work?3. How would you assess diego’s degree of differentiation? Bill’s?4.what would you expect their respective families of origin were like in terms of closeness and distance?5. How do you feel when you “listen” to each man? do you feel yourself siding with one or the other? Ifso, what might that suggest about your role in the session?6. What intervention might you try to help?